Because of this, I just wanted to share three simple little thoughts for you to ponder the next few years (I know I don’t know you personally, but I have spent a bunch of time working to understand people in your stage of life, so I hope this resonates with you):
- Find a couple of trusted older “mentor types” who could care less that you are a football player. I know you’ve grown up with a phenomenal family and great family and church friends. But for this stage, maybe it could be a gift to find a handful of solid, smart, unflappable men and women from Denver who would be willing to walk with you, listen to you, and be there for you as you navigate the next few years (I know a few like that in Denver, if you need some suggestions)
- Get plenty of alone time and read, and read a lot, beyond the kinds of books you’re used to reading. Tim, expand your mind, and your view of people, the world and the faith. These are supremely important formative years, and even though you’re a famous icon you’re still a 24-year-old young man who desires to grow into the man God has called him to be. So read, and study, well.
- Find a couple of friends who will tell you when you’re being foolish, or delusional, or worse. We all are fooled, and you more than anyone has plenty of press clippings and “wanna be friends” who will tell you whatever it takes to be in your inner circle. But flee the temptation to spend much time with those types. Many a famous young person has been dragged down under the weight of their own success. Friendships – real, authentic, honest and lifelong friendships will force you to stay grounded.
Chap Clark
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